Tuesday, April 27, 2010

Stella is getting her groove back

For those of you who have not seen the movie, I will make it clear. I am not getting any younger, I am tired of dealing with tired-ass men that do not know how to treat a person they say they love. If you just want to have sex with me, be honest about it--I may just want the same thing. I have had two tanked relationships and really I am not interested in a third.

New rules...if you move me, I may move you. If you rock my world, I promise I will rock yours. But if you want to play house, step off, my brother. You are not sleeping over, I am not making breakfast for you, you are not allowed to question how I spend my time or money and if you need to ask "How you were", you might just better leave while you can still walk without a limp. If you leave me to finish what you have started, believe me, I do not wish for you to come over again.

I am not a woman that needs to have a man in her life to feel whole. I am tired of the men that say they are honest, live with integrity, and that they want a serious relationship. Shut up, please. No one can say they are honest if they are cheating on their wives. If you have to hang up the phone because your significant other just came home, integrity may not be your strong suit. And the kicker...if you want a serious relationship, grow up and first understand the meaning behind those words.

For now, I just want a few "friends" that I can have fun with. Don't judge me, I'm not having it...I am not afraid to seek out what it is I need at the time. Right now, I just need to have some ego-boosting fun.

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